Boi (plural: bois) is a term used within LGBT and butch and femme communities to refer to a person's sexual and gender identity. In lesbian communities, there is an increasing acceptance of variant gender expression, as well as allowing people to self-identify with labels such as boi.
A younger person who looks and acts like a young, heterosexual male, possibly embodying stereotyped attributes towards casual sex and commitment in relationships, in contrast with the stereotype of the U-Haul lesbian. Bois may not identify as butch, regarding butches as playing a more powerful or responsible role – the "man of the house" – while a boi is still in a freer, younger phase.
A (generally) younger guy who prefers older men, and is the "boi" in a "DADDY and boi" dating, relationship, or sexual situation, where "boi" is used to differentiate between someone who is underage, and someone who just identifies as the younger guy who wants or needs an older man. In this context,......